How to increase my social skills, charm, and lower awkwardness?

2022.01.28 18:34 sibeguysabe How to increase my social skills, charm, and lower awkwardness?

I am a 21 year old male. Up until late high school, I was morbidly obese, horribly unattractive, and very awkward. Never had many friends, bullied constantly, and the concept of ‘talking to girls’ was a distant impossibility.
Recently, (last 2 years) I have made a complete 180, lost a lot of weight, got a good haircut, started caring about my appearance, etc. There was an attractive guy buried in there, and I hear other people tell me that I objectively look good now, co-workers and friends of all genders say it. The problem is I don’t have any of the social skills I should’ve built up during childhood. I never got the chance to develop them.
So now, while I may look good to other people, I still can’t help but feel that I am still that disgusting child. My confidence is incredibly low, I have a hard time conversing with girls, still am awkward, etc. I want to know how to build up my social skills to that of a normal person. Any advice?
tl;dr Grew up incredibly unattractive, made a Herculean effort to improve the way I look, but still am stunted in my social skills due to my upbringing as an unattractive, bullied kid. Want to build those up, how to?
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Can you all suggest kid friendly things we should/must do? The kids have wanted to see the Statue of Liberty since we moved to NY, so that's on the list. I'm interested in The Intrepid. (Also, if you have hotel suggestions that make sense based on quality, price, and location to either the things we might do or the public transportation options to get there, that would be amazing.)
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Hi all, I purchased a new Garmin dash cam 57 as my old one decided it no longer wanted to work.
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